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How to Overcome Your Fear of Losing Your Marriage
(or losing the love in your marriage)

Dr. Huizenga here… If like most, you are here because you suffer in one of these arenas: Your marriage is in crisis. Infidelity, divorce, or a recent secret that became a painful reality now haunts you and your marriage. Your marriage is dying. Maybe it has been for a long time. The warmth, the tenderness, …

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The 3 Beliefs that Ruin a Marriage or Relationship

Your Marriage Breaking? Shattered? Your marriage is breaking. You don’t want it to break, but it feels like each day a new piece shatters. Do you sometimes feel like the door of love, acceptance and intimacy has been slammed shut in your face? You feel unappreciated, alone, ignored and emotionally light years removed from your …

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Top 10 Benefits of Relationship Coaching

I’m giving you the top 10 practical benefits of personal one-on-one coaching. (These are the first 10 that came to my mind as I reflected on my journey as a Marriage and Family Therapist since 1981 logging over 25,000 direct client hours.) Here’s a little personal info. I have two brothers-in-law. One is a medical …

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Blog Review: How to Keep Cool During a Marital Crisis

Before one can intervene or act powerfully to change or alter a marriage or relationship, it is vital that one internally experiences a feeling of calm and confidence. Of course, that calmness ebbs and flows, sometimes by the moment. The internal calmness is indicative of charging neutral. Here’s an article that will enable you to …

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Is it Emotional Infidelity? These 15 Blogs Will Help You Discover the Truth

People don’t often realize it, but emotional infidelity can be just as destructive as affairs that progress into physical infidelity. If you’ve slipped into emotional adultery or are concerned that your partner has, it’s natural to feel adrift and alone. A quick online search reveals, however, that emotional affairs are common. As depressing as that …

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17 Steps for Coping with an Abusive (or Cheating) Spouse

How much do you tolerate with an abusive spouse? What have you put up with? In this blog I list 17 steps for coping with a spouse that exhibits addictive behaviors. Frequently, addictive behaviors increasingly over time lead to abuse thrown in your direction. 17 Steps for Coping with an Abusive (or Cheating) Spouse 1. …

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Help for Troubled Relationships

Warning: in this article I’m taking a very critical look at conventional self help and professional counseling for troubled relationships. I saw what I perceived to be the demise of the therapeutic community’s capacity to be effective back in the 90’s when I served on the State Board for Marriage and Family Therapy. It was …

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