How to Avoid the 5 Major Pitfalls in Your Marriage Crisis Recovery
Please know that almost all – well, maybe everyone – I’ve counseled or coached in the past 30 years have succumbed to one or more of these pitfalls once the martial crisis reaches its peak: I’ve fallen prey to a couple myself. 🙂
Here are the 5 major pitfalls I’ve researched and encountered in my years as a Marriage and Family Therapist and Online Relationship Coach:
I’m reluctant to give simplistic solutions. I want you to know your pain, confusion and hurt are legitimate and I will not minimize what you experience.
But, to instill a little hope and perhaps offer some direction in the midst of your storm, I offer 5 avenues you can pursue to accelerate the healing and insure your healing reaches a depth in which you are able to trust and love fully again:
How Coaching works:
One-on-one coaching is convenient. Coaching consists of half hour consultations over the phone and, if you choose email contact between sessions. No traveling. No waiting room.
One-on-one coaching is anonymous. No one else knows, unless you want them to know.
One-on-one coaching provides focused help to get at the concerns and issues most pressing to you NOW.
One-on-one coaching is paced. We schedule around your needs and circumstances.
Take a look at the Coaching Packages below, select the one that best meets your needs, sign up and begin the resolution.
Once you sign up, you receive an email with guidelines and expectations for coaching.
Here’s what you do..
Select a Coaching Package Below with either
Dr. Huizenga or Ms. Jeryl Swantack.
Once you sign up, you will be contacted
to set up your first coaching session.
Someone wrote and asked if we coach the “other person?” Yes, we do. We coach all involved parties. Our styles are not to impose “rightness or wrongness”, but move toward understanding, self-care and self-respect, resolution of what is not working, and finally, create a wonderful life and healthy intimate relationships that are ultimately “affair proof.”
We look foward to hearing from you,
Bob and Jeryl
I very much look forward to talking with you. The 30 minute session once a week is becoming such a precious time for me to find MYSELF. I would like to cope with this situation so that I can become wiser and stronger. I would like to believe that the adversity is the best school.
The explanations you give are usually right on. You seem to know what I’m feeling. Each time I talk to you I feel stronger and stronger.