Here are the results for you who completed the Marriage Crisis Checklist.
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These are typical questions and frameworks for thinking of your spouse, self and your relationship.
1 indicates rather poor odds for a quick effective resolution of the crisis.
2 indicates that the odds are somewhat better.
3 indicates that this person has the best odds for a quick effective resolution of the crisis.
1 He absolutely manipulated me!!!
1 How do I get him to return home for good?
1 How do I get him to understand that our relationship is more important than work?
1 How do I make him leave the other woman and commit to our marriage?
1 What do I do when my spouse’s stubbornness won’t allow the marriage to move forward?
1 How do I get him to stop feeling responsible for the other woman since he feels he destroyed her life?
1 How do I make my spouse fall in love with me all over again?
1 How do I make my spouse regain feelings of love again towards me?
1 How do I win her back?
1 Why does he see nothing good about me?
1 Why does he act as if I am his enemy, always opposing whatever I am interested in?
1 How do I break through to my spouse who shuts me out (goes silent?)
1 How do I make him open up?
1 Why does he keep all his feelings to himself?
1 How do I know if my wife is going through a mid-life crisis or she really doesn’t love me anymore? and the marriage is really over?
1 How do I get her out of affair and check back in?
1 Why won’t my wife talk to me about anything personal?
2 How can I reach my spouse who acts like nothing is wrong?
2 How do I get my spouse to help me heal?
2 He’s hurt me badly but I still love and want him.
2 How do I deal with an angry spouse?
2 how do I forgive and trust after 17 years of infidelity?
2 How do I stop thinking about and visualizing her affair?
2 What do I do when my partner shuts down?
2 How do I regain trust?
2 How can she let me know that she really “gets” my pain?
2 Will I ever feel right or trust him again?
2 How do I get over the pain and hurt and questions after my husband’s affair?
2 How do I look at my spouse like I used to?
2 How do I stop thinking that his affair & lying?
2 What do I do when there is no intimacy in the marriage?
3 How do I forgive?
3 I want to find new ways to love and fulfill myself and not beg for affection from my partner.
3 When will I get to a point where I will feel at ease?
3 How do I make this tension go away?
3 How can I gather the courage to put an end to my marriage?
3 Why can’t I truly forgive?
3 Why do I keep having flashbacks”?
3 Why do I feel I am in competition with the other woman even after she is long gone?
3 How do I forgive myself?
3 How do I cope with the loss?
3 As a Woman, How do I build-up my self Worth and confidence?
3 How do I learn to trust myself again?
3 How do I stop the ache and repetitive negative thought cycle?
3 How do I let go of the angry feelings?
3 What’s the difference between intimacy and closeness?
Now, leave your comments below on your response to this exercise.