How to Save Your Marriage
Turn Your Marriage Around in the Next 48 Hours
If your marriage is breaking or broken, please read carefully.
I’m going to show you how to turn your marriage around in the next 48 hours and how you can use 5 proven and practical steps to then build a deeper love that lasts forever.
Your Marriage Breaking? Shattered?
Your marriage is breaking. You don’t want it to break, but it feels like each day a new piece shatters.
Do you sometimes feel like the door of love, acceptance and intimacy has been slammed in your face? You feel unappreciated, alone, ignored and emotionally light years removed from your spouse?
If so, I will open a new door and invite you into a new world, a world in which the
Laws of True Love can piece your marriage back together.
How to Get Your Spouse and Love Back
Your spouse is pulling away – has been for a while. Maybe you didn’t notice the distance; life was life, with responsibilities and things seemed ok. Not great. But, hey, it is what it is.
Now the distance is right in your face. Wham!
Your partner and spouse feels more and more like a stranger. Some days your body stiffens with the tension and your breathing almost stops.
You fear the anger and hostility. Your mind races trying to understand and fill in the blanks of their aloofness and uncaring behavior.
The touching, the humor, the looked-for moments and space of peace and love are pleasant but distant memories.
The distance is more than distance now. It’s a threat.
You long for what was. You fear the future. You don’t want to lose your dreams, your hopes and maybe even your family!
You’re Not Alone: It’s an Epidemic
The Grass isn’t Always Greener
You think divorce is an answer?
Your spouse thinks divorce, infidelity?
A change of scenery might help?
Pay attention to these stats:
These stats point to two facts:
I can understand why you are here. You want something else. And, rightfully so!
Get Out From Behind the Bad
Beliefs 8-Ball
What you are taught about marriage leads you down the prone-to-divorce path.
I’ve logged over 25,000 client hours as a Marriage and Family Therapist. Couple after couple sat upon my couch and the problems expressed come from these three underlying beliefs:
These underlying beliefs feel like a ball and chain you drag through the marriage.
(Sidebar: I saw these beliefs affirmed and reinforced in the professional community in the 90s when I served on the State Board for Marriage and Family Therapists, but that’s a story for another time.)
But, Here’s the Kicker
What’s conventionally preached at you to save your marriage fits hand in glove with this Bad 8-Ball Beliefs.
You are taught and encouraged to:
See the correlation?
You are Encouraged to do Better
That Which Doesn’t Work
See where this goes?
You try hard.
You don’t give up.
You “work on your marriage” employing the conventional suggestions that only reinforce the Behind the 8-Ball Beliefs, resulting in more frustration, fear, hostility, tension, distance and the continual recycling of your marital garbage.
You hit the rut from which there is no escape.
The divorce court or a life of quiet desperation seem to be your fate.
Marriage Counseling is Like Gulping
Down a Couple Glasses of Scotch
I’ve been fortunate to spend the past 5-10 years carefully researching my 25,000+ client hours.
I found I was very good at helping couples find relief – relief from the tension, pain, fear and hostility, often quickly.
Couples would see me for 3 to 8 sessions, feel much better and smile on their way out of the last session.
I offered them an elixir, a way to relieve their tension.
And, that was good – for the time being.
There’s More than Relief
However, a high percentage of couples would 6 months to a couple years later call for another appointment, slouch on my couch and recite the same story as before. Only this time, it was worse; more painful with a deeper level of tension and despair.
Or, I would hear through the grapevine that they were divorced.
I treated the couple, but did not cure the underlying reasons for their fear, distance and frustration.
And so, once the effects of the scotch wore off – the relief from the pain, stress and tension, – the couple was back to square one, or worse.
Marriage Counseling and Therapy in general focus on treatment, not cure.
Here’s that Old 8-Ball Again
Much – I would say 99% of the world around you, including the underpinnings of Marital Therapy, is erected on the Bad 8-Ball Beliefs I mentioned above.
You need to work from a different framework, if you want a lasting love that you can enjoy daily and trust forever.
Relief = Marriage Turn Around
Hey, let’s not throw out the baby with the bath water. I helped hundreds of couples turn their marriage around often in the wink of an eye.
Don’t take this lightly. I don’t.
As a matter of fact, I’ve carefully researched what I did that provided relief and propelled that turn around.
The Turn Around and Feeling Safe: 3 Rules
In hindsight I lived by three rules in my therapy sessions that created a very safe environment.
I’ve built on these three “rules” and within the past 10 years outlined and created a practical tool that slices through the tension, fear and hostility – within 48 hours!
Users have sung its praise!
This tool is available to you in the “Quick Marriage Turn Around” Column in the Chart below.
Finding Relief from the Tension is Critical
Finding relief from the tension is absolutely critical to what comes next: building a new foundation of trust and love.
When you feel safe, when the tension is turned down, you are free to enter the land where the old gives way to a new Love that is easy, freeing and lasts forever.
This doesn’t just happen. Time does not heal and make well.
Again, in the past 5-10 post private practice years, I’ve had the luxury of expanding on the tools and strategies that really work to create a marriage surrounded by a space of love.
Steps: Clear out the Past,
Build a New Future
Follow these steps after the marriage turn around:
Get Your Spouse’s Attention FAST!
The Quick Marriage Turn Around puts in your hands the tools to get your spouse’s attention fast – in 48 Hours. (Note the section of Are you Safe? I have a personal and professional horror story that demands you answer this question.)
The Online Modules, Levels 1, 2 & 3 move you into the territory of healing and building a new love and marriage. There are too many resources to mention here, so study the chart carefully.
The last two columns (Jumpstart and Advanced Coaching) offer you expert and experience support and guidance that is rare to find.) I, and no else does the One-on-One Coaching. You have my attention and commitment.
Marriage Wisdom a Click Away
I served many people (those 25,000 client hours) in my private practice. I am thankful for all who entrusted me with their stories and marriages, families and lives.
In the past 15 years my focus shifted to the internet, which has provided untold opportunities to develop new materials and serve more people.
Right now you, reading this page, may be from the USA, Canada, Germany, the UK, Japan, India, South Africa – any place on this planet.
You have access to the best of me. You have access to all of me, at least professionally speaking.
In private practice I was limited to the number of people contacted each week. And, to feed my family I was compelled to charge a significant amount per hour for a session.
Some couples spent thousands of dollars healing and rebuilding their marriages.
Better, Cheaper and More Convenient
You get up-to-date, well researched and well thought out marital wisdom for the fraction of what I would charge you in my office. (And, wouldn’t it be a pain driving to my office each week!)
Take advantage of my presence on the internet.
For only $27 you get a proven tool that will Turn Your Marriage Around – in 48 Hours!
For only $147 you get the Turn Around Tools PLUS Modules 1, 2 & 3.
Order Now and Let’s Begin Turning Things Around
Imagine…
- What it would be like to have your spouse back, not as they were, but as a new model of love, understanding and joy.
- What it would feel like to be in a marriage marked by ease and peace; gone the days of tension, fear and hostility.
- What it would be like to have your spouse truly hear you, smile and look you directly in the eye as you state your desire.
- What it would be like to truly look forward to time together knowing that you can create a space of love that encapsulates the two of you.
- What it would be like to just be YOU, in all your gifts as well as foibles, in your marriage.
- What it would be like to know that at any moment you can turn on to Love; to know that you can create it; it’s within your power and purpose.
- What it would be like to have a place, (your marriage) which served as a sanctuary for you to feel and believe that you are valued, worthy and deserving.
- What it would be like to truly feel love; to feel it in every cell of your body; to feel its power flowing through you and in the marriage.
- What it would be like to TRUST this Love to be the power that will continue to grow within and between the two of you forever.
If You are on the Fence
- Make sure you get my free downloads. Read my blog posts. Questions, hope and a new way of viewing and feeling about yourself, your marriage and your spouse will emerge.
- If you have any doubts and are reluctant to sign up for the Members Levels or Coaching, start with the “Quick Marriage Turn Around” introduction.
You Can’t Lose
The Quick Marriage Turn Around and Online Modules – Levels 1, 2 & 3 come with a Money Back Guarantee. If you are not satisfied, for any reason, you get your Money Back in the first 30 days.
Although this is seldom a problem, I will guarantee your satisfaction if you implement the strategies and tools.
You will not be unhappy. You will see a change in your relationship and how you feel about yourself.
I say this with confidence as I read the hundreds of testimonials I’ve received over the years.
You Can Have the Relationship You
Truly Desire
There is a myth that says rebuilding a marriage is hard! It means bringing up all your marital garbage. It means talking about the hurtful feelings and addressing the “problems.”
Not so! Most find, with the Tools I offer, that creating a marriage or relationship cemented with true love is not as difficult or “painful” as imagined.
You need not continue to look back or “express” your feelings of pain, anger or disgust. You’ve probably done enough of that and it got you nowhere.
And, you don’t want the fear, hostility or distance to continue, for one more minute. You want the crisis to heal.
You want it now.
And you can begin moving in that direction now.
Choose your package and we will begin.
I look forward to working with you.
Bob
